I know you are a good homeschooler but...
Tell me, have you heard something similar? Where someone you know starts off on how you are a great homeschooler but on the whole they are against it because of the bad homeschooling parents. You educate yourself on teaching and are bright but what about the others? You know, the ones that don't make sure their kids learn anything or they lock their kids in the basement;). Or better yet can't read or do any figurin';).
I had this happen a lot over VBS. I served with a teacher who said she used to teach homeschoolers and she kind of felt that who does it or the kids' progress needed to be regulated. When I got further details come to find out she didn't teach "homeschoolers". She was teaching at a charter school (read public school) that was an independent study program for kids that were already basically bombing out.
I also have been hearing about parents that weren't making sure their kids did any work. Or left them at home alone while the mom went to work. Or parents that don't like doing anything with their kids.
Well, I had an epiphany moment. I was talking about the Rachel L ruling with a lawyer friend of mine (who is pro-homeschooling) and the comeback for all these arguments hit me.
Parents who don't like their kids and don't want to teach them won't homeschool! It is too hard. Those parents are going to be the first ones in line for the public school.
Now will there be exceptions, sure. But those exceptions to all parenting rules already exist. Parents who are going to lock their kids in the basement and neglect them are already breaking the law. They aren't using the out of "homeschooling" to get away with anything;).
I had this happen a lot over VBS. I served with a teacher who said she used to teach homeschoolers and she kind of felt that who does it or the kids' progress needed to be regulated. When I got further details come to find out she didn't teach "homeschoolers". She was teaching at a charter school (read public school) that was an independent study program for kids that were already basically bombing out.
I also have been hearing about parents that weren't making sure their kids did any work. Or left them at home alone while the mom went to work. Or parents that don't like doing anything with their kids.
Well, I had an epiphany moment. I was talking about the Rachel L ruling with a lawyer friend of mine (who is pro-homeschooling) and the comeback for all these arguments hit me.
Parents who don't like their kids and don't want to teach them won't homeschool! It is too hard. Those parents are going to be the first ones in line for the public school.
Now will there be exceptions, sure. But those exceptions to all parenting rules already exist. Parents who are going to lock their kids in the basement and neglect them are already breaking the law. They aren't using the out of "homeschooling" to get away with anything;).
Labels: Homeschoooling, humor
6 Comments:
I agree with you completely. Most neglectful families gain the most by using the govt nanny service and expecting teachers to do everything for their child.
Homeschoolers are usually motivated by extra concern for their child's well-being. There is already a larger sense of commitment to teaching.
Susan in Va
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Salar37_Shushan, at 7:39 PM
I know all parents thinking their childrens education. Homeschoolers is a good for that persons. This site is useful for who want to know about home scoolers.
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mathew, at 2:40 AM
Yeah...like I know there are some really great public school teachers out there, but what about all the ones that aren't? I hear about them in the news, too. That's why we should get rid of them all and close the schools.
It makes about as much sense.
I worry about those children in not-so-good situations, too. I'm not so naive and pro-homeschooling as to not realize that they really do exist out there.
But because there are some bad parents doesn't mean that we all submit to licensure before conceiving. Because some raise their children on junk food doesn't mean we all submit our menu plans to the state. And because there are some not-so-good homeschooling families doesn't mean we all need to invite the state into our homes or send our kids to another institution.
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Anonymous, at 10:49 AM
In most of the well-publicized "homeschooling" tragedies, the families in question had a long history of involvement with the child welfare authorities. The issue isn't homeschooling but rather the failure of the social workers to do an adequate job of protecting the kids in these deeply troubled families. Requiring a portfolio review or a high school diploma for the teaching parent isn't going to prevent child abuse.
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Crimson Wife, at 5:18 PM
I like this response. I live with (around) many current and retired teachers who think this way and this is a nice piece of perspective to offer.
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Amy Jane (Untangling Tales), at 12:45 AM
One thing that has to be taken into consideration is that no one is going to care more about your child's education than you.
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Anonymous, at 7:52 AM
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